- Nigerian-American singer and rapper Jidenna disclosed how he used to deceive and manipulate women in his past relationships
- The singer said that he realised his mistakes when his polyamorous relationship failed, and he saw the hurt he caused to his partners
- Jidenna said that he was deeply ashamed of his actions and cautioned men from following in his footsteps, urging them to respect women
African-American musician Jidenna is in the hot seat after admitting to manipulating and gaslighting women.
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How Jidenna manipulated women
In an interview that has since gone viral, the musician who has Nigerian roots said he used to lie to the ladies he dated, just for the fun of it.
Reflecting on his actions, Jidenna expressed deep regret, acknowledging his past behaviour as both shameful and exploitative.
“I used to lie for sport, just coz it was fun. I didn’t realise I just enjoyed manipulation. I am an excellent manipulator. I didn’t understand yet how to relate to women in a way that wasn’t exploitative,” Jidenna started.
The ‘Classic Man’ hitmaker explained how he would gaslight women and invalidate their feelings.
“I would find different ways to make them feel that what they said I was doing was not happening, to make them feel like, ‘oh he is listening, actually he does wanna talk, I was with an emotionally absent guy before him, that he’s acting with his heart, actually that’s sweet’, he said elaborating how he manipulated them.
“I got them to think that instead of what I was really saying, ‘I am a man in this world, you do things on my time and when I want it. I wanna talk about it now so don’t walk away from me’,…instead of ‘hey she just said she needed time to process’, he went on.
Jidenna even recalled the manipulative things he would say to the women in his life just to have control over them.
“I remember different quotes I said, just like really manipulative things to say like… ‘Noone’s gonna love you the way I do'”, he admitted.
Jidenna expresses remorse for his actions
He confessed that he felt remorse for what he had done, knowing how mistaken he was.
He acknowledged the gravity of his behaviour, emphasising the necessity of valuing and honouring women.
“My God! How could I do that to black women? I am ashamed of it and that’s what makes me angry when I see my brothers do that. I understand it, but I can’t have that. We can’t do that to the women that have done so much for us to even exist! I did that. I robbed some women of their baby making years dragging them along, they built me up, look at me now and look at them. It was horrific.”
American star Jidenna puts massive body artwork on display
Popular Nigerian American singer, Jidenna Mobisson, recently shared new photos of himself that had internet users drooling over him.
The music star who used to be known as a classic man seems to have abandoned his suits for a more primal look and his fans are here for it.
Jidenna’s new photos put his heavily tattooed body as well as his auburn locs on display.
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